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 UNM MEDICAL CENTER LIBRARY
ORAL HISTORY OF MEDICINE PROJECT
Interview with P. G. Cornish, III, M.D.
Albuquerque, New Mexico
January 11, 1991

The following is an interview with Dr. P. G. Cornish, III, a retired general Surgeon of
Albuquerque, New Mexico. He is a third generation surgeon. His grandfather, P. G. Cornish,
Senior came to Albuquerque in the 1890's, and his father, P. G. Cornish, Jr., set up his surgical
practice in Albuquerque after medical education in the 1920's. This interview was held on
Friday January 2, 1991 in Dr. Cornish's Albuquerque home. I, the interviewer, am Professor
Jake Spidle of the Medical History Project and the UNM Department of History

SPIDLE: I'm interested in talking with you, as a long time New Mexico physician, Dr. Cornish,
but also about your grandfather and your father. We can wind up, really, talking about your
experiences, or at least your arrival in what might be called an immature New Mexico medical
community, around 1960 or so. Is that when you came, 1960?

CORNISH: He came in 1963. I started practice here in 1963.

SPIDLE: You came in 1963, but your granddad arrived in 1891.

CORNISH: Yes, because my dad was born in 1892.

SPIDLE: If you think about it, very shortly now, in six years, we'll be talking about one
hundred years of Cornish surgeons in New Mexico.

CORNISH: That's right.

SPIDLE: That's an extraordinary record, the only one I know of within the state. I don’t know
anybody else who has that kind of continuity.

CORNISH: Well, almost everybody else were relative newcomers, although there certainly are
some physicians whose families did go back a long ways, but didn't start out as physicians, I
guess.

SPIDLE: Let me jump to the very end. Is there a fourth generation of Cornish physicians?

CORNISH: No. There aren't any; neither one of my sons or my daughter are involved in
medicine. Well, one of my sons works at Presbyterian, he's sort of a quality expert, or something
like that, but no, there are no physicians.

SPIDLE: Well, maybe we'll get a grandson or granddaughter ...

CORNISH: Well, I don't see much hope in my family (laughs) of having any grandchildren at all!
They've got their own agenda, but I keep talking to them about it.

SPIDLE: You retired three years ago?

CORNISH: I retired in the end of May of 1987.

SPIDLE: Well, if you practiced until 1987. That’s exactly 90 years of Cornish surgery in
Albuquerque. It's an extraordinary record really. Let's start with your granddad -- I know a
little bit about him from conventional biographical sources, and from that earlier interview with
you. He was a native of Alabama?

CORNISH: Yes, he was born in Alabama and raised there, and then went to medical school at
Jefferson Medical College in Philadelphia. When he finished there, he came out to visit a
brother who was Jiving in Winslow, Arizona, at that time, and he didn't go back there to
practice, he stayed here. He liked it. Of course, he made some trips back there, but he only
practiced for awhile in Flagstaff before he moved into Albuquerque.

SPIDLE: Do you know anything about that Alabama family? Was it southern gentry, dirt
farmers ...

CORNISH: No, as a matter of fact , this last May, my sister, her husband, and my wife and I
paid a visit down there to them. I had never met these people. I'd heard a lot about them, my
mother kept up with them, in some ways, my sister had. But we saw them and stayed in the
little town with them. We stayed where he was born, Demopolis, Alabama.

SPIDLE; One of the reasons I'm fishing is I want to get the background of P. G. Cornish, Sr.

CORNISH: Well, I'd never been there, and Demopolis is not a very big town, and the relative we
were visiting with, and her family, the husband came down there in 1930, I guess, and I asked
him what the population was then, and he said 5,000, and now, in 1990 when we were down
there, it was 10,000, so it hasn't had any great spurt of growth

SPIDLE: Are there any Cornishes left down there?

CORNISH: No, there aren't any Cornishes. The last name of the cousin of my dad's, is George,
and her husband, Ben George, was a printer and the editor/ publisher of the Demopolis Times for
years, and he has retired in the last two or three years. But, no, that's what they were. Of
course, their last name was George, and they have two or three daughters who live there.

SPIDLE: But the Cornish men long since gone ...

CORNISH: They're all go ne, and there are no Cornishes that live down there. One of the
Cornishes, George Cornish, I don't know whose son he was, but he went on in journalism and
became at one point one of the editors of the New York Herald Tribune. I don't know if George
ever had any children or not, I'm kind of fuzzy about some of these details, but that's what they
were in, what the George family and the George Cornish family were in.

SPIDLE: But we're not talking about plantation aristocracy then.

CORNISH: Well, my grandfather, yes, there was a plantation, Spring Hill. I guess almost every
county down there has a Spring Hill, but anyway, yes, they were. He used to go and spend the
summers with his grandmother out at this plantation because of the problems with the lowlands,
probably malaria, and so this Spring Hill is maybe 10 or 15 miles out of Demopolis and that's
where he would spend the summers. He was brought up by his grandmother whose name was Torbot.
She came from England, came over here and married, settled in at Spring Hill. They had several
children, some of which died at a young age, and about the only thing that's left of the old
plantation or home is a small cemetery which we went out to see. There are 3 or 4 graves in this
little enclosure, and most of them are fairly young people who died at an early age. It's still kept
up. My cousin down there, Elizabeth George, hires somebody to go out and cut the weeds once a
year or so.

SPIDLE: So there is some suggestion of well-to-do Southern family?

CORNISH: Yes.

SPIDLE: Any medical tradition beyond your grandfather that you know of?

CORNISH: Not that I know of. There may be something, but I'm not really aware of it.

SPIDLE: Why would a young man from the Deep South go off to Philadelphia to medical
school?

CORNISH: Well, I don't know. I don't know what they had at that time in the South as far as
medical training goes.

SPIDLE: A bunch of those proprietary schools.

CORNISH: Well, they may not have even had that, you see? That had to be right at the end of
the Civil War, and they hadn't been able to reconstruct stuff like that, and I guess if you wanted
to get a good, formal education, you'd have to go to the East, where the stuff still was. That's
my guess. I don't even have any idea when the state universities down there were founded.

SPIDLE: I don't either, really, though I do suspect that I know about Tennessee. I'm less certain
about Alabama, but I know that the era when your grandpa went to medical school is the very
era of the proliferation of those fly-by- night proprietary schools, where farm boys went to
school for six months and then were certified as MD's.

CORNISH: Well, then, of course, they probably had sort of preceptors hips or something like
that.

SPIDLE: Riding with the doctor.

CORNISH: Yes, much as the attorneys would have in that kind of thing.

SPIDLE: Well, Jefferson was not like that, though. Jefferson clearly was already a distinguished
American medical school, so...

CORNISH: Oh. it had been for some time.

SPIDLE: ... So for whatever reason he went, he picked a good place, really.

CORNISH: Yes.

SPIDLE: And a brother had already reached the Arizona Territory somehow or other, and then
your granddad followed him in the very early 1890's?

CORNISH: Yes, l suppose maybe the late 1880's. I don't really know.

SPIDLE: Was your grandmother already along, or did he find her in Arizona?

CORNISH: No, he found her in Arizona. Her last name was Coffin and her immediate family
was from Kansas. Of course, you always suspect that the Coffin was from those seafaring
Coffins, the whalers, you know; that's just a guess. I don't have any idea, because we've never
really traced the thing. I have a genealogy book of my father's that somebody compiled back in
the late 1920's and 1930's and it goes clear back to the guy whose remains are interred in the
second row of the cemetery at Simsbury, Connecticut. And my father always took great delight
in that. He graduated from Yale and he'd go back there periodically. He always wanted to go to
Simsbury to see the cemetery where his predecessor was interred. So whoever put this book
together traced them way back.

SPIDLE: As I say, we've already talked about the modern extension of the Cornish medical
tradition. I was just curious about the extension on back into the 19th century; apparently very
little, if any. Maybe your grandfather is the founder of the line of physicians.

CORNISH: Well, that's possible. I don't know. Of course this genealogy book is divided up
into families and in that particular family. I think that my grandfather was probably the first
one.

SPIDLE: Or at least, in the practical way, he certainly is the founder of the New Mexico branch.
Well, he didn't spend too much time over in Arizona, coming to Albuquerque, specifically, in
1897, and your dad, at the time, was a 5-year-old.

CORNISH: I always thought he came when he was about two years old, so that would make it
1894.

SPIDLE: I've got conflicting information about when exactly P.G. Cornish. Sr., came to New
Mexico. One source said 1896, but if your dad was a 2-year-old, it was 1894. He actually was
licensed in 1902, but licensure was a fuzzy thing back then.

CORNISH: I can go get that thing. I've got that article right now.

SPIDLE: Well, 
I might ask you to let me take a look at it in a few minutes. Let's see what this
one says ... this one says 1897. In the 1890's; good enough, at least for our purposes. And I
always see him identified as Chief Surgeon for the Santa Fe Railroad.

CORNISH: I think he was -- I don't know if that was his first position -- I always thought that
it was, when he first came here. And he did that for a time. That's kind of a fancy sounding
title for a doc who takes care of the rail road employees here on this route. But yes, he did, that's
my understanding, and then he carried on with that for some time. I don't know how long, until,
again, as I understand, until Dr. Lovelace, "Uncle Doc." moved in here from Fort Sumner and
took the job over.

SPIDLE: When we say, "Santa Fe Company Surgeon," we don't mean a company doctor whose
practice is exclusively that of railroad employees.

CORNISH: Oh, I don't believe that. There's no way it could be that.

SPIDLE; You couldn't make a go of it that way.

CORNISH: No, and the Santa Fe Hospital couldn't even really keep busy a full time doc. I
mean, eventually, when they grew to what they were in the sixties, they kept a lot of people
busy, but they had people coming in from Amarillo, and so forth, so that they were the referral
center for a lot of Santa Fe stations: Clovis would send their people over here to the Santa Fe
Hospital. They could keep them busy at that time.

SPIDLE: From the beginning, then, almost certainly your grandfather had a more or less large
private practice?

CORNISH: Yes.

SPIDLE: In what? Was he basically a surgeon or was he one of the old-fashioned GP's?

CORNISH: Oh, well, in those days, there wasn't anybody who limited their practice to surgery.
I mean, they called them physicians, and surgeons, and stuff like that, but they had to do
everything: obstetrical work, pediatric work, everything like that. They had to take care of it.

SPIDLE: Was there any kind of special focus within his practice that your grandfather was
especially interested in?

CORNISH: Not that I'm aware of.

SPIDLE: But he was an old-fashioned family doctor who would set a bone or deliver a baby...

CORNISH: As far as I know.

SPIDLE: And practiced here until his death in 1932. What year were you born?

CORNISH: 1929.

SPIDLE: So you just have the vaguest of recollections, if any, of him directly.

CORNISH: Well, I have some recollections of him. 1932 is when he died?

SPIDLE: Yes, here's an obituary in the 1932 annual edition of Southwestern Medicine.

CORNISH: Well, I can remember my grandmother died before that, and they closed up their
house and he came to live with us, and he didn't live -- I can't remember him living there very
long. I can remember going to his house, which was up on Walter Street, and is still there, but I
can remember going up there and I can remember my grandmother being there. And the usual
things that kids remember about their grandparents: there was always a table in the front living
room that you go in, and there was a drawer in there and she'd always have candy for the kids
(laughter), that sort of thing. And then, I can remember part of her illness because my
grandfather and my dad -- she had pneumonia -- they constructed an oxygen tent for her, and I
can remember being down in the basement of the house while they were building that oxygen
tent. But she died, I suppose a year or six months before my grandfather. I guess she didn't
recover from that pneumonia. But I have some slight memories of her.

I can remember going on house calls with my grandfather. He had an old car, I don't know if
it was a Pierce-Arrow or what it was, but I can remember going places with him. I have more of
a remembrance of going to Presbyterian , and what was then the Sanitarium, or maybe going
down there to Dr. Rice's hospital on Central. That sort of thing I have slight remembrances of.

SPIDLE: Dr. Albert Simms told me a charming story about your grandfather.
He says, "Dr. Cornish, Sr., liked to make house calls, but he was a terrible driver. He
always had one wheel of his old La Salle up on the curb. He was enormously proud of his
grandson, P. G. Cornish, III , who was about 2- 1/2 or 3 years old, and kind of chubby. (Still is;
he'll be mad at me for saying that.) When grandpa Cornish took him on house calls, the boy
would shout, 'Look out, Grandpa, blow the horn, Grandpa.' Young P.G. was the only one
grandpa listened to. On more than one occasion, some lady said , 'Dr. Cornish, I don't think you
should bring that child into the sick room.' 'My dear Madam,' he always replied, 'this is my grandson, who is going to study medicine. If you do not want him to accompany me, I believe you should make some other arrangements.' Grandpa Cornish doted on P.G: (laughter)

CORNISH: Well, I don't remember that. I've heard some of that before. I've heard the story of
my supposedly telling him how to drive and things like that. I would be surprised if that's not
true about his driving. He was a kindly old gentleman whose wife ran his life, and was
continually hounding him to keep accurate records, bookkeeping, collect money, stuff like that.
If she wasn't there, apparently, he would have let everything slide and people wouldn't have
been billed, they wouldn't have paid their bills, this kind of thing. As I remember, she was a
fairly large woman with severe hair, like they sometimes had it, and, "Clara, Miss Clara," and
according to the stories, why, she kept him straight on these kind of things. So I wouldn't be
surprised about the driving.

SPIDLE: It would be, certainly, accurate to consider him one of the lions in the Albuquerque
medical community one of the shakers and makers?

CORNISH: I think he probably was. Of course, the medical community at that time, there was
not much there. But I think he was, certainly by reputation, his training, his integrity and
everything else, made him one of the leaders.

SPIDLE: Yes. The literature, of course, on the medical community from that epoch is pretty
limited, because they were so serious about no advertising, down to the level of making sure that
their names didn't appear in the paper, even on casual matters. So it's really hard to collect much
information about the doctors of that generation. But when the medical community of the turn
of the century is discussed at all, he's always cited as one of the major figures. You know Merle
Hope Sisk, Mrs. Arthur Hope Sisk?

CORNISH: Oh, yes, very well.

SPIDLE: She told me about the medical community of that generation and the Cornish family;
of course, she talked about the women's circle, also. It's clear that the Cornish family very
quickly and very successfully established itself as mainstays of the Albuquerque community.

CORNISH: Well, yes, you know, Dr. Hope and my grandfather and -- offhand, I can't think of
the others, but there was a group of them who used what they had available to them and they did
a good job.

SPIDLE; And somebody like Dr. Lovelace kind of straddles the last segment of your granddad's
practice and most of your father's practice. Lovelace and Wylder may be the next generation
after Cornish, Sr., and Hope.

CORNISH: Well, yes. Of course, Wylder was actually still in practice when I first came here.
don't know how old he was when he died. I can remember when he was still practicing, I mean
as a kid, when I was still in school, because he had a couple of daughters who were close to my
age. And they lived right down there on Tijeras and we used to be guests in their house. I
remember something about him, yes.

SPIDLE: Well. let's come forward to that next generation, if you please, and talk a little about
your dad. Your dad was born over there in Arizona?

CORNISH: Yes, in Flagstaff.

SPIDLE: And then, of course, was reared here in Albuquerque. I think I have most of the nuts
and bolts facts about his career, where he went to medical school and the like, in the record, but
I don't know very much about the exact nature of his practice. He, unlike your grandfather, was
exclusively a surgeon, I gather, or is that an overstatement?

CORNISH: Well, it is to a degree. When he started out, he did everything, just as all the other
doctors did, particularly in a community this size. There may have been some people who
limited their practices exclusively to surgery or other things in some of the bigger cities, but as
time went by, he got rid of [he general practice sort of stuff, and exclusively did surgery.
Well, the American College of Surgeons, which was the standard for excellence and for
certification and credentialing, this kind of thing, he was one of the original members in New
Mexico and one of the governors. As time went by. they wouldn't let people in who did not
spend 70-80 percent of their time doing surgery. But when it was first starting out, it couldn't
be that way.

But he used to do all kinds of things. t know he did deliveries, Caesarean sections,
orthopedic work. He went up to Seattle where there was a surgeon, I think his name was Roger
Anderson, who developed a technique of putting pins in one side of a fracture and one on the
other and something on the outside that wasn't in the body, but on the outside to hold the thing
together. That was one of the beginnings of original surgical external fixations of fractures.
And I know he went out there and took a course on how to do that. He did a lot of thoracic
surgery, a lot of TB work.

There are certain diseases and things like that have an influence on history, and certainly.
TB had a great influence on New Mexico. There were people who came out here for the cure,
lots of well-known names that stayed here; they came here because of their tuberculosis is. And he did a lot of surgery for tuberculosis, in association with his internist friend , LeRoy Peters, who took care of the medical ends of their needs.

SPIDLE: Yes. I got a good deal of information about Dr. Peters, interviewed his son.

CORNISH: Fyfe?

SPIDLE: Yes, Fyfe. He died not too long ago. I got some materials from Fyfe about his father.
Your grandfather was certainly a major figure in the Albuquerque medical community of his
day, but your father was perhaps even more prominent within the next generation.

CORNISH: Well, I don't know about that. I remember Dr. Peters. He was Quite a character. He
had kind of a squeaky voice and every other word was an obscenity. (laughter) And I can
remember, as a little kid growing up, I'd use something like that and my mother would get mad
at me and say, "Where did you learn it?~, and I'd say, "I heard it from Uncle Pete," or whatever
I'd call him. Which may have been true, because he and some of the other guys used to come to
our house periodically because they had a poker group that played every week on Tuesday and
they'd rotate around at the different houses. And I can remember as a little kid, they played
downstairs and my bedroom was upstairs and in the summertime there was a porch and windows
and I could stay up there and listen to what was going on, (laughter) and you could always
identify that scratchy voice of Peters cussing every other word.

SPIDLE: You know, I've heard about that voice. Somebody characterized it as a whiskey voice,
kind of ... well, he had tuberculosis of the larynx. You probably knew Carl Gellenthien from up
at Valmora, above Las Vegas?

CORNISH: Well, I didn't ever know him, but certainly knew about him.

SPIDLE: Well, we had the chance to interview him before he passed away, and he remembered
LeRoy Peters coming up from Albuquerque to do, what do you call the -- where you inject the
air into the pleural cavity?

CORNISH: Pneumothorax.

SPIDLE: Pneumothorax, yes! Dr. Peters came up to help them do their first pneumothorax there
at Valmora Sanitarium and, according to Dr. Gellenthien, it went all wrong and the patient died,
the very first one that they did right there. And he ended the story by saying, “Pete and I went
next door and got drunk." (laughter)

CORNISH: That's the way they used to handle that in those days. I've got a box of lantern slides
that was put together for a medical presentation that my dad made down in Memphis years ago,
and written on there are the names of a lot of the people who were in this community. Some of
their families are still here, because they were afflicted with tuberculosis is, and it had to do with
pneumothorax. And then there was what they called pneumolysis where they'd have these
adhesion holding the lung to keep it from collapsing, so they put a small instrument in and cut
these adhesions, the lysis, to allow the lung to collapse. And this was a presentation they made
down there about their treatment.

SPIDLE: Well, I knew he did a lot of thoracic surgery and, as you say, in Albuquerque in the
1920's and 30's, you'd almost have to.

CORNISH: Wel1, you surely did. For instance, he used to go, about once a month, down to Fort
Stanton to do their thoracic surgery. I know he did thoracic surgery for the Indian Service here
in Albuquerque, plus whatever stuff came through Presbyterian, in particular, and I suppose
some through St. Joe's, through the san that they maintained.

SPIDLE: It would please you, I'm sure, to know that I've now interviewed 139 New Mexico
physicians, in that generation that came in the late forties; for example, Larry Wilkinson and
Edward Parnall, the orthopedic surgeon. All of those who remembered the old guard surgeons,
Uncle Billy Woolston, and Hannett and Cornish, remember them respectfully.

CORNISH: Ob, yes. Well, I think my father and Hannett, those two in particular, were very
instrumental in the quality of surgical care in this community.

SPIDLE: Those two in particular, along with Dr. Van Atta, are always cited to me as the leaders
of the anti-Lovelace faction, or the "downtown docs." Did that tension develop in that
generation or was it there even with your grandfather and old Uncle Doc?

CORNISH: Well, I don't know about whether it was there then, I have no direct knowledge. As
far as I remember growing up, they didn't have much good to say, much respect about Uncle
Doc. There was always a question, maybe not so much about him, but about Lassiter, as to
whether he really had any medical training or not. My mother used to be so adamant about that,
that when he died and his obituary showed up in the paper and he had all these degrees after his
name, she went around saying, - He didn't have any of those things! I don't know.

SPIDLE: You wouldn't deny, would you, that there were quite strong feelings between your
father and the Lovelace Clinic people?

CORNISH: Oh, yes, there were very strong feelings. I think I probably told you the last time we
talked that they tried to vote Uncle Doc out of the medical society. I don't know about the
details about that, but people still talk about it. I suppose that if you talk to Albert Rood, he
might remember more of the details. I would kind of guess he was there then. But, yes, they did
have very strong feelings, and I know when we talked before, there was mention of if a
merchant patronized the Lovelace Clinic, why they wouldn't patronize that merchant! (laughter)
It was a bitter thing.

SPIDLE: Was it fundamentally economic, or personal, or...

CORNISH: I don't know. I think all those people were economically doing all right, except
during the Depression. But I have to think that so much of it was a matter of their integrity.
They were concerned about some of the things Lovelace and Lassiter were doing in their effort
to build their clinic, and some of that concern was certainly valid. And because of the closeness,
the small town, things would get back to the docs. The one story that I particularly remember
that was a slight thing, but Wes Conner used to do OB/GYN work here, had a patient in the
hospital, and Doc Lovelace was at the hospital and he saw this lady and went in the room; he
knew her, was an acquaintance, and said, "Oh, well, what are you doing here?"
And she said, "Wes Conner, Dr. Conner's going to do a hysterectomy on me."
And Dr. Love lace supposedly said, Oh? Does he do surgery? {laughter} You know, that would
be a hard thing to make up, but maybe they did, I don't know.

As Side I ended, Dr. Cornish began talking about a series of newspaper articles that had
particularly offended the downtown docs:

SPIDLE: I know the series you're talking about

CORNISH: Well, anyway, they got this writer out here and he wrote these wonderful, marvelous
stories about the Lovelace Clinic and ... I want to say his name was Keifer, or Kibbler, but that's
not it. [Robert Ruark.] Anyway, when these things came out in the paper, why it just incensed
the people who were not members of the Lovelace Clinic - - about this advertising; that they
brought this guy out here, they accused them of paying him to write these articles, which maybe
was true, maybe it wasn't. I wouldn't put it beyond them, knowing what went on. Anyway, it
doesn’t' t make that much difference. But, yeah, there was a lot of real hostility.

SPIDLE: So there may have been an economic element, maybe not pronounced, but maybe it
was mostly personal and ethical, as opposed to ...

CORNISH: I think that a lot of it was, yes. Economics always enters into everything, and you
can't really divorce yourself from that kind of thing when you talk about this kind of stuff.

SPIDLE: How did Randy factor in? Randy was different from his uncle or was he perceived
that way?

CORNISH: I don't know how different he was. Of course he made that high altitude jump and
he was sort of a big hero; they made a lot out of that. And he didn't fail to take advantage of
that kind of stuff business wise, and of course they got some of the NASA contracts. We were
watching the rerun of “The Right Stuff" the other night, and there in that first episode, why
there were these guys who were brought out to the Lovelace Clinic, it said. Well, that kind of
gets to you a little bit. In this day and age, that stuff is okay; I mean, it may be okay, it may be
legal, but there are still a lot of us who have a real strong feeling about that kind of stuff. So,
anyway, there were a lot of things like that they didn't appreciate. As they'd say in the country,
“They didn't cotton to that stuff."

SPIDLE: Yes, exactly. Well, you father's base was Presbyterian Hospital, though he presumably
did surgery over at St. Joe's as well?

CORNISH: Yes, he did some surgery over there. I can remember going over there. I used to
make rounds with him, used to go and they made some small surgical gowns and I'd go in and
stand on a stool and watch the operation. But the nuns were not that easy to get along with. If
you were their favorites, or they thought you could do something for them, then they might do
it. St. Joe got a, :liated with the Lovelace people and they used to do stuff, and so the other
guys didn't like that. And so, they would stay away from there. And a large part of it, I believe,
the others -- my dad and Hannett, Van Atta, a lot of those people supported Presbyterian. It
was that support, then, that allowed Presbyterian to become what it really is. That was the
foundation for it.

SPIDLE: When did your dad have time to play golf? He obviously played a lot of golf. Or at
least, he played well whatever time he played.

CORNISH: Wednesday afternoon was their time and Sunday mornings. My mother used to have
to -- they didn't have answering services in those days -- so she'd have to stay home, and our
house at that time was on Park Avenue, 16th and Park, just 3 or 4 blocks from the country club,
and she'd answer the phone and screen out the stuff and if there was an emergency then she'd
have to drive over there and get him.

SPIDLE: Did he have hobbies other than golf?

CORNISH: Well he used to like to duck hunt, and he and Arthur Sisk, and there were some
others, I think probably Keith Baldridge, of the Baldridge Lumber Company, and some of those
people had a pond down near Tome, right near Tome Hill. Do you know where that is?

SPIDLE: Sure.

CORN1SH: ... that they owned, and they'd go down they’re and hunt ducks. It was private, they
didn't let anybody in there, and I can remember going down there with them once, but again, I
was pretty little. But that was pretty good duck hunting, because this part of the central flyway
at that time had quite a few ducks, geese. But he was not a fisherman . Oh. he used to go with
us if we were going dove hunting or quail hunting, he would like to go there. But, see, the
Middle Rio Grande Conservancy District came in there and drained their ditches and put in stuff
like that and drained most of the ponds and sloughs, so it changed the whole thing. So then if
you' re going to hunt after that happened , why you'd have to follow the river or the d itches or
some of the bigger places. It lost its appeal to him, then, I guess.

SPIDLE: So some golf, some duck hunting, but apparently, he wasn't much interested in medical politics. I know he was President of the Bernalillo County Medical Society, but there's not much indication that he was interested in the medical society at the state level.

CORNISH: I guess not. He was interested in the American College of Surgeons, very interested
in that.

SPIDLE: Yes, you indicated he was state governor or regional governor, I don' t know how it's
structured.

CORNISH: Yes, state Governor. He was that for a number of years. They would appoint the
Governor and he would be the governor for Quite some time until such time he didn’t' t want to do
it anymore, or they impeached him (laughter) or whatever they would do. Now, they give you a
term of 3 years, maybe it's 2, and then if you behave yourself okay, you get another
appointment, but then that's it, unless you have performed so well that they want to move you
up in the hierarchy there.

SPIDLE: It's clear as we've talked here that you were reared in the medical community, but I
had no idea it was so intensive as to have cut-down surgical gowns and there you stand on stools
watching surgery as a boy. Did you ever consider anything else?

CORNISH: Not really. When I went to college, I didn’t really think about anything else. I don' t
know how hard I thought about medicine until towards the end of later years, but nothing really
appealed to me. Of course, I think, like a lot of other people, I always could have been a gentleman
rancher. (laughter) To have my spread and have a lot of people working for me, where I didn't
have to earn a living.

SPIDLE: There are a lot of those who would like to handle something like that, sure. (laughter)
Well, this has been enormously interesting to me, and I would certainly like to see those lantern
slides if it's not any big inconvenience.

CORNISH: No, I can get them down for you.



End of tape.

2011 - Donnie Brainard is ordained as a minister of the "Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster"


2013 - Nicholas D. Brainard Jr. is ordained by the "Church of the Latter-Day Dude"


Monday, July 22, 2013

Thursday, June 13, 2013

Diva

It's not easy for a Diva to get ready in the morning.



Love at First Sight

This is the very first time India met her brother.


The Great Weenie Wiggle of 2013


 So I hear howling laughter coming from the dining room.  I go to see what's causing all the commotion to find that my son  discarded every stitch of clothing, had figured out how to get up on the table and positioned himself right in front of his sister as she ate dinner.

India could not stop laughing, tears flowing down her cheeks. She ended up with her face in her plate as her body quivered causing everybody else in the room to start giggling like children.

I'm not sure what my daughter found funnier, her brother having the balls (no pun intended) to get up on the dining room table or that he didn't realize meat and potatoes (no pun intended) weren't for dinner.


Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Pure Joy

It's the pure joy that most can't see.




A wonderful day at the Cabin helping Daddy water the flowers, Cabin, rocks, bugs, birds, Chipmunks, dog, tree, Daddy and of course herself.

Very tiring job that ended with a nice nap in the forrest under the sun.

Life is good.




My Beautiful Hungarian





This photo was a life changing event for India, Marion and myself.

I had just separated from my former wife. The impact of what had happened to India was becoming clear and India was failing at an alarming rate.

The recession, among other things, had wiped me out financially. Until the year of this photo, I had paid out of pocket up to $30,000.00 per month for India’s interventions; I have a high school education only. I was now cash poor, had no substantial training to help India. It was my former wife that was trained extensively and supposed to have been responsible for using the daily interventions with India in the event we faced financial hardship; this did not happen. It was my job to do all I could to come up with the money to cover the professionals in San Diego, San Francisco, Tucson, Albuquerque, El Paso, Pontiac Michigan, Ontario Canada, New Jersey, Boston and Hungary.

So after I left my former wife and leading up to this photo, I found myself in a position of having to protect my children and in particular India whose little body was deteriorating as a result of her mother’s brutal neglect. To say I was stunned and confused would be the understatement of my life.

My ex-wife and I had previously been hiring specialists out of Hungary who are trained in something called “Conductive Education”. Of the million dollars plus that was spent on India, nothing came close to the results of “Conductive Education” which cost a fraction of the other interventions that showed little to no results other than decimating our bank accounts. We hired and flew in at least a dozen of these amazing “Conductive Educators” from Eastern Europe to work with India and other children. But one stood out in ways I can’t articulate.

This person was Viktoria Szolnoki. She and India quickly became best friends. My former wife insisted on Vikki being the only "Conductive Educator" to work with India and we flew her from Europe many times to help our child. Vikki, until India’s mothers’ actions, inactions, blocking of interventions and change of philosophy, took my child to the point of standing, walking, feeding herself and doing things most professionals said were impossible. Vikki was amazing and in very high demand. We booked her as often as possible in-between her sessions in England, Canada, Ireland, Hungary and other U.S. States.

So not long before this photo, India was in a desperate state and her future looking very bad. I tracked Viktoria down in a town called Fareham, England, just outside Portsmouth and about 2 hours from London. I updated her on the situation and she agreed to try to train me via MSN video as best she could with the basics. But the damage to India was too much and the video sessions couldn't give my child what she needed to just relieve the pain.

I realized something drastic had t be done. I swallowed my pride, called Viktoria, told her I was broke, I couldn't afford to pay her, I could however arrange payments and would borrow the money to cover her air ticket. I apologized as I asked her if she would be willing to come for a short time during the Christmas holiday which was only weeks away and help India; we were desperate. Victoria’s response was nice as she said she'd call me back. I took this to mean “no” and as we hung up, found myself slumped on the floor sobbing uncontrollably at the realization of our situation.

I was awoken an hour later from the very same spot I'd called Viktoria. I'd fallen asleep on the floor from exhaustion, the phone still in my hand. Viktoria called me back from England and her response brings tears to my eyes to this day.

As Viktoria told me that she’d be arriving several days later, I found myself doing all I could to not break down again while I was on the phone with her; this time with pure and profoundly deep relief. Viktoria had purchased a ticket from her own funds. I didn’t know until later that it cost her $5,000.00 US Dollars coach because of last minute holiday booking. Viktoria told me not to worry about paying her and that she’d stay for a month.

This is the photo of literally the minute my children came into the house and realized Vikki had arrived. This “love” session went on for over 30 minutes. The relief and excitement was like nothing I’ve ever experienced in my life. India, with her one good arm, held onto Vikki so tight, that she left dark bruising on Vikki’s skin. India’s exact words when she saw Vikki, after doing a double take, looking at me for confirmation that what she was seeing was in fact real, was “Dikki – oooohhhhhh Dikki” (Verbal - Vikki oh Vikki", with the most amazing sigh of relief as she began to sob, tears flowing down India’s cheeks as she giggled with excitement.

Vikki has been put through absolute hell from every direction and in ways that I can’t bring myself to write about. This includes horrific actions from my own family, ex-wife and friends that have left us in a constant state of fear and disbelief; all from the moment Vikki arrived to help my child.

Vikki is still here and still enduring the unimaginable from those very same people and more. Yet every single day, she puts her wings over all the children, myself included, to protect us from the incomprehensible that we have yet to understand. She does this for no other reason than she loves us.

Vikki doesn’t have to be here yet here she remains. And the beauty of this incredible woman isn't limited to her. Vikki’s family makes regular trips across the world to help, at their expense while my own family doesn't so much as call after a single and horrifying seizure where India is rushed to the hospital in an ambulance while her lips turn blue from lack of oxygen. Not to mention a “how is India doing” email or call after one of India’s many surgeries.

So I knew the minute India said “Dikki – oooohhhhhh Dikki” that I’d been blessed with something some call an Angel, or Miracle but I now prefer to call my wife and mother of all my children.

In closing, if you’re wondering why Marion is left out of this story, it’s intentional. Marion’s story of this same timeframe deserves equal attention and will take several chapters if not a book. I put ink to paper as often as I can but these are very hard events to write about.



This is my beautiful wife Viktoria


This is our beautiful son Nikki

This is our beautiful daughter Abbie

This is our beautiful daughter India

This is our beautiful daughter Marion

This is a very upset Vikki when her new husband farts in the car as he is driving and locks the windows shut.










Yellow Yuck


Brother just puked yellow "yuck" on his chest without missing a frame of Mickey Mouse Club House. 
India could not believe it.


Monday, June 10, 2013

Presence of an Angel

This is an emotional photo for me to post. 
I’ve spent the past 14 years trying to help and protect my oldest daughter India who is helpless. We’ve been taken advantage of by charlatans masquerading as caring interventionists. And found ourselves in the confusing position of shielding India from terribly destructive family members who’ve acted with complete disregard for her wellbeing.

I’m one of the few fathers in the state of New Mexico who has been awarded full custody and there was a very good reason it came to be.

This picture brings tears to my eyes every time I see it because my child has been through hell. Yet this little girl who at times sobs while I hold her because of absolute frustration with a body that won’t cooperate as she watches her peers dance and play, is also blessed every now and then with the presence of an angel.

This photo is of India and an angel “Sherri”. This amazing woman, who was an aid for the school system, paid not enough money to live on, stood up and protected my child as if she were her own. Despite the school admonishing, pressuring and even placing an undeserved and spiteful letter of reprimand in Sherri’s record, continued to shine and show her integrity. She looked out for my child regardless of the impact on herself.

To tell you this is rare would be the understatement of the century.

This is a photo I took of Sherri and India during India’s last year in Las Cruces. They didn’t know I was taking photos – this is their relationship. 





Friday, June 7, 2013

Beautiful Love Part 1


I've watched my oldest daughter go through the unimaginable. Recently I was put through another intense situation with my child that I wasn't prepared for.

I went to pick my oldest daughter up from school a bit early on her last day. I arrived knowing she had a crush on a boy who is equally disabled. My 14 year old daughter sometimes blushes when she talks about this boy. She’s known him since they were young and he’s one of the first names she mentions in the morning as we prepare her for school as she looks for confirmation that she gets to see him each day.

I was pleased this “boyfriend” India always talks about made her happy. I fostered the romance but assumed it was just a “crush” from a distance. I didn't fully understand the bond until India’s last day of school and it almost brought me to my knees.

As I walked into my child's classroom, I found her wheelchair that she can maneuver positioned next to her boyfriends. They were holding each other and clearly enjoying every moment; it was beautiful beyond words.

The joy of knowing my child had been given the opportunity to feel the happiness at 14 of having a boyfriend, the butterflies, the excitement; this love is a gift that most never experience. Especially considering both of these kids are trapped in broken and painful bodies yet have found happiness in each other.

Here is a photo from this day, nothing more need to be said and I’ll sleep a bit better every night to the day I die as the world has become a bit brighter for all of us.


(Not long after I'd posted this story, I was driving through the mountains with my daughter India. We were listening to music, enjoying the scenery and having a great time. 

Cellular service is very patchy where we were at 8,000 feet in the Rocky Mountains so the phone coming to life is rare; which I enjoy.

So when I heard my phone buzz it caught my attention. I pulled over to take a look and was taken aback by what I saw.  There were hundreds of responses to this post; they were beautiful.  

While my daughter was sitting next to me as I read the heartfelt responses to my post, a song came on the radio and the timing of it was indescribable.

I began to cry like I've not cried in a long time.  These were very bitter sweet tears. But of course my Angel asks me with a big grin on her face "why Daddy 'uhhh' (her word for cry)". Then she started laughing which of course made me start laughing.  So there we were in God's country, laughing like loons and enjoying that incredible day.


"Fall is here, hear the yell 
back to school, ring the bell 
brand new shoes, walking blues 
climb the fence, book and pens 
I can tell that we are gonna be friends 
I can tell that we are gonna be friends 

Walk with me, India B.
through the park, by the tree 
we will rest upon the ground 
and look at all the bugs we've found 
safely walk to school without a sound 
safely walk to school without a sound 

Here we are, no one else 
we walked to school all by ourselves 
there's dirt on our uniforms 
from chasing all the ants and worms 
we clean up and now it's time to learn 
we clean up and now its time to learn 

numbers, letters, learn to spell 
nouns, and books, and show and tell 
playtime we will throw the ball 
back to class, through the hall 
teacher marks our height against the wall 
teacher marks our height against the wall 

and we don't notice any time pass 
we don't notice anything 
we sit side by side in every class 
teacher thinks that I sound funny 
but she likes the way you sing 

tonight I'll dream while I'm in bed 
when silly thoughts go through my head 
about the bugs and alphabet 
and when I wake tomorrow I'll bet 
that you and I will walk together again 
I can tell that we 
are going to be friends 


yes I can tell that we are gonna be friends. 

... Jack White - The White Stripes 








Our Day In Hell Part 9 - The Dimentor



The first few weeks after I separated from Veruca were incredibly liberating.  I moved into a nice home and spent a lot of time with my girls setting up the place the way we wanted.  We painted the girls’ rooms the brightest pink of pink.  We bought bunk beds.  We watched tons of movies and ate barrels of ice cream.  We really enjoyed ourselves.  My youngest daughter Harriett wanted a cat so we got a cat.  I felt a freedom that I’d not experienced for a long time and I had my children there to enjoy it with me.

The kids were always absolutely thrilled when it came time for their week with me, their arrival would set off a barrage of hugs, kisses, squeals and laughter.  But this is also when India began to say “no mommy’s house” on a regular basis. She also began to ask daily how many more days’ she had left with Daddy.  When I’d say anything but “you have to go back to Mommy’s’ today”, she’d smile, swipe her one good hand across her forehead, say “whew” and giggle.

Previous to my separation from Veruca, India would often plead with us to not take her back to our family home; he wanted to be anywhere but home.  In hindsight, India was being terribly neglected by her mother both physically and emotionally and wasn’t able to tell anybody because of her limited communication abilities.  India also could feel the awful tension in the home. As my brother put it, “the room became icy cold when Veruca and I were in the same room”.   My house was not a home; it was a dungeon - dark and cold.  

India’s condition was worsening.  Her little body was becoming stiffer and stiffer.  She’d lost her ability to stand and take steps.  Hell, she’d lost virtually all that she’d gained over the previous years.  Pain was becoming a daily issue; the situation was increasingly spiraling out of control.  I’d found myself desperately trying to learn all the critical techniques for India’s welfare that Veruca had learned over the years.  I found that I was unbelievably frustrated and angry with myself for not learning everything that Veruca did.  I was clumsily trying to help India.  I’d read articles and watch videos of India’s interventions to try to figure out what to do. The “Great Recession” was in its infancy at this point and my real estate company had come to a screeching halt and my cash flow had dried up.  The only good thing about this economic disaster is that it gave me plenty of time on my hands.  When my children were with me, I was able to give them a huge amount of attention.

At this point, I was broke; literally.  I couldn’t afford to send India to a professional facility or hire somebody to come in and work with her as I’d done in the past. What insurance and the state covered was incomprehensibly inadequate for my child.  One of India’s previous interventionists, Viktoria, suggested that we do Skype video calls over the internet so that she could see India’s condition and give me “real time” instruction on what to do to help her. At the time, Viktoria was living outside of London England working at a school that specialized in children with cerebral palsy.  We’d spend long periods of time, me stretching India as Viktoria watched over the Internet and gave me instructions.

Viktoria was hands down the most amazing interventionists we’d ever met and the best thing to have ever happened to India.  The icing on the cake is that India absolutely loved Viktoria.  I have to give credit to Veruca for finding and hiring Viktoria in the fist place.  When Veruca found her, Viktoria was living in her home country of Hungary and working out of Ireland, Great Britain, Canada and the United States; she was in high demand.  When she arrived at our home for her first 4-week visit, she immediately went to work and profoundly changed India’s life.

Our Internet video sessions lasted for several weeks but we’d reached the limit of what we could do.  India’s condition continued to spiral downward.  By this point, her legs were scissoring (crossing) terribly and her overall body was showing signs of atrophy.  It was painfully clear that India’s mother wasn’t lifting a finger to help her and my wholehearted but unskilled intervention wasn’t succeeding. 

By now, it was late December 2008.  Veruca had filed for divorce and was behaving like a monster.  I was desperate beyond words to try and figure out what to do with India and get her back on track. One evening after a particularly bad day for India, I swallowed my pride and called Viktoria in England.  I explained to Viktoria that I was broke; I could hardly pay for groceries.  I went on to tell her that I was desperate to find help for India.  I asked her if there was anyway that she could come to the United States over the coming Christmas holiday.  I told her that I could probably borrow enough money to pay her plane ticket but couldn’t afford her fee.  Viktoria listened quietly, when I was done, she said that she’d get back to me.   About 2 hours later, Viktoria called back.  I could feel my blood pressure rise and stomach tighten up when I saw her number on my caller id.  When I answered, Viktoria said “Nick, I want to let you know that I arrive day after tomorrow at 10:00 pm.  I’ve paid for my plane ticket; it’s my Christmas gift to you.  I’ll stay for 3 weeks and do everything I can for you and your family”.  I was stunned; I didn’t know what to say but thank you.  When we got off the phone, I felt the most amazing sense of hope that I’d felt in a long time; I was giddy.

In all fairness, I need to back up a few years and explain my relationship with Viktoria.  When she first arrived at our home, I thought she was a decent enough person, I had no issue with her and we got along just fine.  But this quickly changed as Veruca began to tell me very troubling things about Viktoria.  Veruca said that Viktoria was an anti-Semite.  I’m not Jewish, nor do I believe in any religion but I do have a problem with a true anti-Semite.  Then Veruca told me that Viktoria was very homophobic and loathed the gay and lesbian community.  This really upset me as I have many homosexual and lesbian family members and friends.  I began to seriously dislike Viktoria and she disliked me.  Turns out, Viktoria was simultaneously being given bogus information about me.  Turns out Viktoria wasn’t anti-Semite or homophobic.  For whatever reason, from day one, Veruca had her mind set on distorting who Viktoria and I were to each other.

Several years after we met and numerous 4-week sessions later, Viktoria and I finally got to know each other during a one-week period.  Veruca was on a month long trip to Asia.  Viktoria arrived for a session with India a week before Veruca returned.  I was instructed by Veruca to be nice to Viktoria, cater to her needs and make her feel welcome.  Veruca went onto telling me that Viktoria was “invaluable” and we couldn’t afford to lose her.  I begrudgingly agreed to play nice host to this anti-Semite, gay bashing, intolerant Hungarian.

 When the day came that Viktoria arrived, I did as instructed.  I ferried her around town so that she could buy supplies and whatnots.  I made sure she was well fed and even begrudgingly sat through a movie each evening.  But then it happened, we actually talked.  I was caught off guard, Viktoria wasn’t Satan in a human suit after all.   Viktoria was funny, interesting, intelligent and very kind.  As the days passed and we talked more and more, I found myself intrigued by this woman.  I looked forward to our conversations.  It had been over a decade since I’d had kind and fun interactions with a woman like I was with Viktoria.  After awhile, I began to find myself drawn to her, which was confusing for me.  I knew my marriage was a nightmare, I knew that I didn’t want to be in my marriage, but I was torn so I didn’t pursue Viktoria until a year later; just before my separation from Veruca.

After my separation from Veruca, I made the decision to fly to Europe to see Viktoria.  I wanted and needed to know if my feelings for her were real.  I had many questions that I needed answered.  My visit to the England was amazingly surreal.  It was then that I realized that I was deeply in love with Viktoria and she to me.  In some ways, I believe this trip literally saved my life.  Viktoria showed my kindness and love like I’d never experienced and at a very, very dark time in my life.

So bringing us back to Christmas of 2008.  Viktoria arrived the night before my custody week began with my girls.  It was wonderful to have her in my home.  The next day when the girls arrived, Viktoria positioned herself in the living room with her back to the front door.  As usual, Marion came racing in, not noticing Viktoria.  Then I came in with India.  She was her usual giddy self when she arrives at my house, talking up a storm and asking how many more days she’ll be with me.  By this point, we were standing in the living room in front of Viktoria but India hadn’t noticed her yet.  India was in the middle of telling me something when she caught sight of Viktoria.  She slowly turned her head to look at this beautiful mirage.  Then looked back at me, eyes the size of saucers, slowly beginning one of the biggest smiles I’ve ever seen on this little girl.  She looked me straight in the eyes and said “Viktoria”?  I said “yes sweetie, it’s Viktoria”, India asked me one more time and when I said yes she curled up in a little ball and began to scream with excitement.  I handed her to Viktoria and she grabbed and held onto Viktoria with all her might.  India didn’t let go of Viktoria for over 30 minutes and when she did, she left dark bruises on Viktoria’s side from where India’s one good had held on for dear life. India’s best friend had returned.

We commenced to make plans for the Christmas holiday, which consisted of driving north to my families’ home town, then off to the mountains to take the girls skiing.  First, we needed to go to Verucas home and pick up all of India’s necessary therapy equipment.  Sadly, this would be Viktoria’s baptism into Verucas destructive and warped world.  Veruca refused to allow us access to India’s equipment.   She’d not let us have one item even though they sat in the same place they’d been for years, dusty and unused.  We were horrified.  Here I’d managed to get the single most beneficial person in India’s life to come help her for 3 weeks, only 3 weeks and we were refused the tools for India’s intervention.  I was panicking as time was of the essence; I wanted to make the most of every minute that Viktoria was here for India.  We eventually gained access to the gear but it took the intervention of attorneys and the threat of the court to make it happen.

We proceeded to leave for the holiday and had the time of our lives.  We ate like kings, watched dozens of movies, laughed, teased and even got in a full day of skiing – India included!  But it was a very sad and lonely day when Viktoria left.  I’d realized at that point that I really was in love with her.  She loved me and equally as important, she loved my children.

The real divorce battle began just after the New Year in 2009.  It started with Veruca attempting to withhold my children from me.  As I’d learn throughout the process, Veruca had it in her head that if she believed it, it made it so.  So one day she told me that I could only have the kids several days a month.  This obviously didn’t fly and would have been disastrous to India if it had.

Verucas next attempt to remove the children from me was through the police.  Early in the divorce process we’d agreed that I’d take all the photo albums, discs and videotapes, digitize them and upload to an Internet service so that she that she and her family could download at will; everybody could have copies.  By far, Veruca took the vast majority of these photo and video shots; her passion was photography.  One day, there was a knock at my door.  When I answered, there were 2 police officers standing there.  They proceeded to inform me that they, the FBI and the local District Attorney had just concluded an investigation into my involvement in child endangerment and possible child pornography.  My reaction was to laugh. I stepped outside and looked around for my friends, thinking I was the unwitting recipient of a pretty good prank.  Nobody came out from the bushes or around the corner, it was just the police officers and I.  They went onto tell me that all charges were being dropped and the investigation was being suspended but they were bound to notify me and provide me with the paperwork; I was horrified.

As I read the police report, my heart began to pound, I broke out in a cold sweat and had to hold back the vomit.  Veruca had hand picked very old photos and videos of our children that I’d uploaded to a Google based Internet photo service as agreed.  She’d neglected to inform the police that these photos were on this site as per an agreement that our Attorney’s had approved.  These were very innocent home media of the girls doing whatever young children do.  She’d chosen and sent to the police a select few where our children either were naked or without shirts, but none of which were graphic or revealing whatsoever; they were home videos and photos.  Fortunately for me and my children, the police, FBI and District Attorney also agreed and documented that this material was noting but innocent home media.  Regardless, I was mortified, as Veruca had spread the world about the investigation, clearly distorting its origination and falsehoods thereof perpetrated by her.   I was dealing with a mentally ill, seriously deranged scorned woman.

The damage from the investigation runs deep and I find myself still dealing with it.  Earlier this year, I took my youngest daughter to her gymnastics class.  As I sat in the bleachers watching her, a woman came up to me and said, “You know, people frown on you sitting here watching all these little girls”.  I was stunned and it took me a few minutes to recognize the lady.  She was a close friend of a woman who had a Power of Attorney to represent Veruca at one of India’s school meetings.  She was also a local Realtor, a member of my industry in a small town. 

Soon after the police event, Veruca showed her insanity again, this time in front of an entire room of public school teachers and administrators.  We were in what is called an “IEP” Individual Education Plan for India when Veruca announced to the group that she was no longer going to take India to her therapies.  You could have heard a pin drop when she said this.   Veruca went on to say that it was becoming too much hassle for her to have to fold up and place India’s wheelchair in the trunk of her Mercedes E55 AMG and transport her to the intervention facility in our small town.

After Viktoria had to go back to Europe, India began to backslide physically; despite all the work Viktoria had done and taught me to do.  I took India to her Pediatrician for a physical and to get some guidance from him.  In our session, he said that India looked very bad and that he was concerned.  He went on to tell me that he felt because India was so weak that she should be taken out of public school altogether to avoid her being exposed to any viruses.  He also said “Whatever you were doing in the past to make her so strong, do it again”.  He was referring to all the long-term therapy and Conductive Education camps we’d taken India to throughout the United States and Canada over the years.  The Pediatrician sent me off with a referral to get updated x-rays.

I told my attorney what the Pediatrician had said, she called him on the spot and asked if he’d repeat it in court; he said yes. When the day came in court for a custody hearing, we called the Physician to the stand to testify on India’s behalf. I was bewildered with what came out of his mouth.  On the stand, under oath, this man said that he thought India should be in school full time and should not go to the “boot camp” style camps that we’d been sending her to over the years.  I couldn’t believe my ears; he’d changed his opinion 180 degrees, what the hell was going on?

Turns out, Veruca caught wind that I’d taken India to see the Pediatrician.  She’d show up at his office and somehow convinced him to change his story and outright lie on the stand.  Since then, I’ve learned from many sources that younger women influence this Pediatrician; this is exactly what Veruca did.  We also learned that Veruca went to the physician who reviewed the x-rays that the Pediatrician ordered and attempted to badger him too but luckily he didn’t stand for her nonsense.